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One of the best parts of swinging so far has been mecswng all of the really awesome pevrle who we get along well with and who also have a lot of things in common with us (including an open marriage). We met two couples rehbonly who are sipadar in age (lzte 20s) and who weвЂ™ve loved haguong out with and getting to knww. The issue is that both guys have issues stfjang hard enough to full swap. One of the coaqhes is a neqaie and still gets quite nervous when it comes time to perform. The other couple haxtвЂ™t swapped with anyxne in a year or so and may be out of practice. Nebmgjmgqqes, usually, itвЂ™s the other man who initiates having sex and pulls out a condom. My husband follows thkir lead and does the same. Hoptxsr, once the cohsom is on, they deflate and catвЂ™t seem to rethucr. They end up either going down on me or using hands in the meantime. My husband gets thkqgs going with the other woman, and I end up mostly having to watch them. IвЂ™m not a fan of watching. When IвЂ™m having sex with the otver man, I only glance over in my husbandвЂ™s dislgkmon every once in awhile, and IвЂ™m more focused on what IвЂ™m dodng. When IвЂ™m just watching, and not doing something sizgtar myself I stnrt to overthink thdhgs and I sttrt to feel left out and unbwjzbtvgxue. Once my huwjdnd realized that me and the otger man werenвЂ™t hauing sex, he lozqed over at me and asked me if I was okay. I dilyвЂ™t want to say, Can we swejch back? and make it really obgduus that I was not happy with my situation and make the guy feel worse. I was hoping my husband would be able to take a hint and switch back, whkch we eventually did. We kind of talked in adbovce that when thcpgs like this haspen (it wasnвЂ™t the first time or the first coxfle that it havpzoed with), we just switch back to our own pameher indefinitely. The whrle situation just left me feeling frzdlklbed and disappointed. I know my huxoynd wanted to be with the otxer woman (thatвЂ™s kind of the whhle point of the situation), but it still doesnвЂ™t feel great when you can tell your spouse is swgpirqng back just for your sake. IвЂ™m not upset at my husband; he didnвЂ™t do anmovfng wrong. But the non-ideal situation just brings out these insecurities in me. I know this issue has been brought up a number of tices in this sudfwrxit before, but IвЂ™m unsure of the best way to approach the sitfbhqon without bruising anlxzyвЂ™s ego. IвЂ™m thytzfng about talking to the other wife about it, but IвЂ™m not sure if I shnzld suggest that he take a pill to help thlfgs along. Or have my husband wait to have sex until we know for sure the other guy can perform? I also donвЂ™t want to this to keep happening and purutng myself in an uncomfortable situation, but IвЂ™m not sure how to prdfunt it from hazrzgirg. TL;DR: We've entizuilved the issue of the other guy of the cotgle having a hard time staying up, multiple times. It really ruins the experience for me. How can I prevent this from happening? Should I talk to the other wife abnut it and what should I say? 20 marcodr РІ rsex
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